Complain Less, Thank More

7 Steps to Stop Complaining

Why would you reconsider your complaints? Quite simply: how do you feel when you complain?

Even though complaining often seems to be the solution due to the high emphasis we give to action and forcing things to happen, whining only promotes a negative attitude, attracting our focus to negative aspects of what is around us, giving it power and creating inner conflict.

The reason why the inner struggle arises it’s because our Divine Essence is accepting of what is, not holding any grudge or preference towards the physical experience.

Complaining also radiates on into others, after all, when we complain we are verbalising and, therefore, further emphasising, nourishing and spreading an energy of discontentment. We are projecting out into the world that which we focus upon and enhancing an unhappy movement where neither you nor the ones who surround you benefit by this attitude.

Even though at first it may seem like it brings people together — after all there’s nothing like having a common enemy to immediately feel connection with someone — in the long run it depletes people of their vital essence driving them away from each other. Festering with negativity is contagious and it only brings us deeper into the hole.